Straight Men Studies: How to seduce apparently straight guys
Friday, January 18, 2008
One of the most unanswered questions that many gay frat guys wonder about is: "how to seduce straight guys". This sounds paradoxical. If a guy enjoys a man's company that guy is probably gay himself by definition.
I really don't know whether it is scientifically possible to seduce ANY straight guys. The fact that it is not easy for girls to seduce gay guys is a living proof. (imagine how impossibly difficult it is to try to turn Carson Kressley straight, it's probably easier to build a refrigerator from the scratch than getting him interested in eating some pussies) There are theories out there which claim that human are inherently bisexual to a certain degree, I found them quite plausible. This theory also agrees with many real life examples that gay guys do sometimes pick up an apparently straight man. I read the below from the New York Magazine:
Thomas, 37, an investment banker who considers himself straight, has had sexual encounters with three men. What got him curious was, of all things, straight porn. “You see these girls doing certain things and you think they’re really hot, but sometimes the way they’re totally submissive you wonder what it’s like to be the woman. And most pornography involves an element of the guy’s anatomy, which is usually huge.”
On a bad vacation in Argentina with a girlfriend, he met an attractive German guy on the beach wearing a “banana hammock.” They saw each other again in the locker room, and one thing led to another—a gay Heartbreak Kid. Though Thomas said it wouldn’t happen again, they hooked up a few more times before the end of the vacation.
There were two others after that—a trainer-masseur whom he generously repaid, and an Australian he found on Rentboy .com. Like a typical macho guy, he views his exile in Gayville not as a sign he might have some thinking to do, but as an educational experience that’s made him a better lover to women. “Now when I’m with a woman and she’s into being submissive, I know it’s exciting for her and I don’t feel guilty,” Thomas says. “I understand the fantasy of being taken by a man.”
Still, he doesn’t tell girls about his trysts. “The same women who play up the whole bi thing with each other are freaked out by the idea of men touching each other. Women are always worried about being replaced—not just by women but by men too.”
There are ways to get with a straight guy...
1. Look for signals: All straight guys who are interested in experimenting would send you subtle signals that they wouldn't mind messing around with you. Pay attention to see if any of those signals come up (e.g. all of a sudden he wants to play wrestling with you, he talks sh1ts like "I need to have sex with a girl so bad right now" and puts his arm around your shoulder etc). If a guy gradually starts spending more time at your apartment, initiating closer and closer contact, those are good signs. Now it's the right time to break out some beer! Let him make the moves, this is very important!! No straight guys want to be hit on, it's a dominance thing, hitting on him will make him feel he's in the "passive" role, thus he will run away.
2. Keep your big mouth shut: Although it is tempting to kiss and tell, don't forget those straight guys who experiment prefer to do it covertly. If you have a bad reputation of being the type of person who would kiss and tell, they wouldn't take the risk to try to take anything further with you. Reputation is important.
3. Understand the rule of the game: Now you hit the jackpot, he made out with you. Time for reality check! 99% of the time he would freak out and disappear from your life for a while. You will be making a huge mistake if you keep texting him or chatting him online, it will only drive him away further. Just play it cool, reciprocate the indifference, take it easy for a while, things will change for the better usually.
It's tried and true!
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October 22, 2008 5:21 AM
I'm straight and I have had sex with a lot of straight men. When I was younger, nearly all of my firends and I would get each other off at least once. It was no big deal. Yeah, we like to experiment and we enjoy pleasuring one another. It isn't always a dominance thing. Unfortunately, once we start getting older, doing "it" with guys gets labled "gay." Gayness is the preference for men over women. Bi is wanting both. Straight guys should indulge in their same-sex desires and not worry about the lables.