Secret Confessions #7
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
A macho man walks into a cafe asking for a job. Then, an equally qualified queen walks into the cafe and do the same. Who will get it? The striaght guy, you bet.
We have seen this a thousand times, even gay guys don't want to hire queens, just like women don't usually promote other women in the corporate world.
Is it self hatred by the way?
Cut through the political BS and deep down most people would want a white, blond, straight acting Abercrombie boy. Personally, I can take an Asian or a Latino. Latino guys are cute and most of the Asians I met are smart and we can have meaningful conversations.
Sometimes "gayness" just holds people back in organizations. This sucks. I know. Can't gay guys accept other gay guys for who they are?
"Just wondering. Like I consciously drop my voice a little when with blokes and call them 'mate' all the time.... and uncross my legs when I think of it but I think straight guys do that too. Do you consciously modify your behaviour to appear straight or 'str8acting' - how far do you go? Is it to impress others or to feel good about yourself?"Asks one guy in the straight acting forum.
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