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Secret Confessions #6

Thursday, January 31, 2008



Are you ready for more juicy confessions from straight and bi guys? Look what I found on grouphug.us:

I think about gay sex some of the time,and wondering what it would be like to have full on anal and sucking cock, with two guys, i ve been sucked off by guys and ive sucked too,but years apart,i only had 2 guys in my whole life, i just cant go all the way, and kinda dont want too.i ve been with women and thier the best, but gay sex is so hott and sexy im getting all hard just thinking about what im typing,this first time was when i was going to primary school he was my best friend, he would ask to suck me all the time, i always wanted to say no, but couldnt, this went on for years, i hardly ever sucked him, didnt want to, then the second guy only 2 years ago i had a mate over, we were drinking, he was playing my computer, i decided to get my cock out, i saw that he looked over and he did the same, i knew that id be sucking his cock cause i hadnt had cock in my mouth for yearsd and this time i really wanted to have cock in my mouth, i moved over to him both cocks really hard, then i asked if i could suck him, he didnt even think about it he said YES So i goto my hands and knees and started to suck and i was lovin it, we played around for quite some time, sucking then i wanted to fuck him i tried to put a condom on they all kept on breaking, so i didnt fuck his ass and went to bed separated, the next morning i sucked him again, when my brother almost came in on our fun, we quickly pulled our pants up and acted like nothing was happening, then decided that we might get caught next time so we didnt do it again over my place, weeks latter i was sending him messages to come around to have fun he didnt want to come around so i went around their i felt so horny,and shakey, after a while i didnt want to do it,i went down on him again but only once and felt like going home, so i did, he turned out to be a dickhead i still think about having gay sex, do you think im gay?

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Frat News: Fucked up parents, Abercrombie got into troubles, Sig Ep guys ditched their bar


Top Row:
Parents crashed the online party, WTF?
Nice exotic Maxim bungalows
Mall customers complained about Abercrombie & Fitch's newest risque ad campaign

Middle Row:
Sigma Phi Epsilon bros ditched the basement bar
Colin Farrell is his gay brother's best man
Florida Southern College student found dead after frat event

Bottom Row:
Gentlemen from Kappa Alpha Order returned to George Washington campus and had a black tie Gala

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Nick from Corbin Fisher VS Clay from MTV's"Newport Harbor"

Wednesday, January 30, 2008



Am I the only person who thinks Clay from MTV's Newport Harbor looks kind of like Nick from Corbin Fisher?

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Sigma Phi Epsilon frat brother does gay porn!?

Tuesday, January 29, 2008



Is this for real? We report, you decide.

I am talking about Fratmen.com model Connor. This week there has been rumors saying that Connor is a real fraternity brother, and he is affiliated with Sigma Phi Epsilon.

SigEp has a great reputation. On many greek forums SigEp guys have been consistently voted as the sexiest frat guys on campus by sororities nationwide.

The Indiana University chapter of Sigma Phi Epsilon was suspended in 2001 for hosting the "College Invasion" porn film crew and making sexually explicit materials on campus. The frat brothers participated were threatened with expulsion.

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Damonslife.com Update: More ex-Fratmen Damon's photos



Ok, now all of you listen up. Ex-Fratmen Damon is getting busy at his own site Damonslife.com and it's only a matter of DAYS before you can chat with him online. He writes:

This is Damon and I’m writing to update all my members on what is going on with my site!
I hope to see you all in the future, I 'M WORKING ON SOMETHING NEW, AND YOU ALL WILL KNOW ABOUT IT!!!! We have been uploading the new software and things to the site, And I want everything right before the paid portion begins, Which will be around a week, SO please keep in touch through email, and again thank you so much for being good at THAT!!!!!

I am so jealous to see that blonde girl getting all of his attention! Fear not, you can all get in touch and chat with Damon via webcam very soon. There are already rumors out there as to what this new site will entail:

- Girls will be in the house
- There will be a few more guys moving in
- A dog will be presented in the house

None of these is confirmed yet. For me. The fact that Damon will be there all the time is good enough a reason to subscribe! How popular do you think Damonslife.com will become? Very!!

Do you have any more candid pictures of Damon / Fratmen models / Corbin Fisher guys? Send them to info (AT) prepular.com

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Ex-fratmen Damon is back!

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You wished you met a guy like Rick Chester in college

Sunday, January 27, 2008



Hawtness!!

Everything about Rick Chester is hot. If there's a thing as "your type of guy", Rick is definitely my type of guy. Devilish, playful, blond, buff. You may have remembered Rick from the Freshmen magazine, he was the cover model a while back. Do you know Rick actually went to college in Australia? Don't you all want to study abroad in Australia right now? AlphaMales.com's Mike wrote about Rick in his blog:

I remember when Rick turned up for his first shoot - he was a quiet, unassuming uni student - who looked totally out of place on a porn shoot. Within a year his confidence has sky rocketed (in a good way) and he's become an international sex god. I'd never had thought it.
Hotness can be divided in 5 levels:
- Level 1: poor hotness (e.g. Mitt Romney, Perez Hilton)
- Level 2: regular hotness (e.g Zac Efron, Brent Corrigan, most of the Fratmen models, and the guy I spent my whole spring break sucking off)
- Level 3: medium-high hotness (e.g. Fratmen's Damon, Cobin Fisher's Nick, Reichen etc)
- Level 4: Major concentration of hotness (e.g. Chris Pine)
- Level 5: Hot-as-hell-fire hotness (e.g. all of the guys from category 2-4 playing frisbee nekkid on the beach)

I will probably give Rick a 4.5 out of 5. Too bad that he has retired.

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Ex-Fratmen Damon is back at Damonslife.com



Good news! One of the hottest models from Fratmen is back! Damon has left Fratmen and set up his own site at DamonsLife.com. It only costs $19.95 to join the private chat and download exclusive photos. Still not convinced this is the best $19.95 ever spent? Go visit Damon's Myspace page. Damon will soon be returning to the steady medical field so go chat with him while you can. He listed his current occupation as a reality cam actor, I have to say he is probably hotter than any of the lame reality personalities we have seen on The Celebrity Apprentice. Here's what he wrote about himself:

There is a ton to know about me!! I'm very outgoing and determined to make my dreams come true, no matter what obstacles get in my way. I have an awesome connection with my family. I have some very few real friends, and they are great, and loyal. I have been wanting to make my own website for a long time and this, seemed to be the perfect time to do it! I played sports through out my whole life. I wrestled, ran track, but the best thing that ever happened to me is when my football team won the State Championship in May 2003. It's weird how when everything that you have ever worked for since you knew what football was, just comes to a stop. At that championship game, when I was looking at the time click away on the clock, I felt my heart just tearing apart a little bye little. Since we won, everyone was celebrating and so was I of course, but at the same time we knew that we would never be able to play football again for our high school, and for some of us that meant more than anything!!! After, that my life sometimes seemed kind of empty, mostly because there was no more practice and Friday night games. In school I was in the choir,and also in the school plays, and that is when I decided I wanted to act. Hey everyone! after nearly a year in LA .. I have decided to return home to Wisconsin to complete the classes I needed for my medical training. I will be done with all my classes by the end of December 2007. I will then be able to earn a steady income in the medical field while I continue to pursue acting and modeling whether I return to Los Angeles, New York or Florida. Thanks again for all the comments support and offers I REALLY appreciate them!!

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Always have your camera ready



I've never done this sorta thing before, taking photos of random good looking guys on the street that is. I found this hot guys photo blog today, they have so many candid pictures of young surfers, college guys with their shirts off. You just can't stare at their bulging biceps on the street without them giving you dirty looks, check them all out here! Some of these guys are so hot they can easily pass off as Corbin Fisher models. I want to go the beach with my cameras right now!!

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Secret Confessions #5

Friday, January 25, 2008



Today's confession isn't even new in a sense that a lot of straight (with the asterisk) college guys have gone through similar situations. But it's still hot. This frat guy had a crush on an incredibly hot looking frat dude he met on the internet, they hooked up, but afterwards the guy started to ignored him. Imagine if that was you and how that would make you feel...

I'm a 19-year-old and I'm confused. I met this guy a few weeks ago (he IMed me off the Internet), and he goes to another college in the same city. Now, I'm a very masculine frat guy (in the closet), and I like the same type of guys. I ended up inviting him to one of our frat parties and he came. This guy was pretty hot, and I liked what I saw. He only stayed for 15 minutes because the party was pretty lame.

We talked on AOL the next day, and he ended up inviting me to his apartment to drink with him and his roommates. When all his roommates retired to their beds, it was just me and him. He ended up kissing me, and we retired into the backseat of my Explorer. (more)



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Heath Ledger found dead: I hope Perez Hilton's death is the next one to make headlines

Tuesday, January 22, 2008



Seeing Heath Ledger to his death is devastating. The news only broke a few hours ago and that fugly, vile, obese fag Pigez Hilton is already making rumors about Heath's untimely death, it is one moment that I hope his dealth will be the next to make headlines. The fact that Pigez could actually make a joke out of this tragedy just proves what a disgrace to homosexuality and humanity in general he is. The person you commented on is dead, that surpasses everything. (I'm glad though, that other gossip sites like Dlisted is dealing this issue with sensitivity and respect.)

The Sydney Morning Herald has a video of a NYPD detective briefing the media outside Heath's apartment.

Paul Browne, Deputy Commissioner for Public Information of the New York Police Department, held a press conference on Heath Ledger Tuesday night.

He confirmed the following:

• The deceased was discovered by a masseuse and a housekeeper at approximately 2:45 p.m. today.
• The masseuse was there for a regular appointment.
• The deceased was found in his bedroom.
• The deceased was lying on the floor, curled up, at the foot of his bed.
• The deceased was naked and face down.
• There were not pills found scattered around the room as had been previously reported.
• There were some prescription bottles, including prescription sleeping medication, uncovered.
• Police do not know how long the deceased had been in the apartment.
• The deceased was renting the apartment.
• The cause of death has not yet been determined. The determination will be made by the medical examiners office.

That last scene in Brokeback never fails to reduce me to tears. We don't know how to quit you Heath.

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Secret Confessions #4



I read something about Mitt Romney, the crazed enemy of gay Americans today: "Romney's candidacy as recently as a couple of weeks ago looked all but over, but his strong showing in the Michigan primary provided his campaign with a much-needed shot of adrenaline."

Whoda thunk?

Let's look at something less disturbing. Nothing is hotter than the striaght guy you've always wanted wants you! Here's a confession I found on AskMeHelpDesk.com:

I am a 20 year old male, gay, and I am hopelessly in love with my roommate of three years. He, unfortunately, has all the symptoms of straightness. Most importantly, he has a girlfriend who he loves to have sex with.. I think. Through the years, he has become my best friend. he knows I'm gay and I have accepted that I shouldn't look for a relationship in his direction. That was all nice and fine until school let out this summer and we decided to rent a house together. his girlfriend took and internship in another state and he sees her maybe once every two weeks. Since the beginning of May, he has started to act really flirty with me and unfortunately it is working and I'm starting to fall for him in a way I haven't in a few years.

He always sits next to me with some part of his body touching me. Sometimes he randomly grabs me from behind and tells me he loves me. Sometimes he'll just sit in my lap. He gives me a lot of attention and the first thing he does when he gets home is find me and ask me what I want to do with him that afternoon. A few days he opened up to me about a couple of things he never told me before including that he didn't want to go see his girlfriend this weekend. He said it was too much of a hassle and he'd just rather stay here... (more)

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Delta Chi guys are so HOT!!!!

Everyone I know says Sig Ep guys are the hottest frat guys in the whole planet. I tend to agree, although I don't know that many Sig Ep bros, the one I know is pretty hot, like Abercrombie model type of hot - tanned, muscular, great eyes, and very friendly like he doesn't know he's the hottest guy in the lecture hall. Today, I found this Delta Chi webshots album and I was totally blown away! These Delta Chi guys are so hot I am speechless after viewing the albums. These pictures really brought back many fond memories of the college years, the fun, the sun, the gambling, the parties, the road trips and the alcohol. In case you want to learn more about Delta Chi, here's some information from their national office site:

On October 13, 1890 eleven law students at Cornell University formed a Law Fraternity, Delta Chi. In 1922, the Fraternity officially went "general", thus opening its membership to men in all areas of study. Delta Chi, in 1929, became the first fraternity to officially abolish the hazing practices associated with "hell week".

There are 126 chapters and colonies operating throughout the United States and Canada. Distribution is fairly even across the continent. Delta Chi has nearly 94,000 initiates.

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Fraternity / Sorority Rushing: You just want them to want you

I found this awesome sorority documentary. It addresses questions like:

What is going on behind the rush scene?

How do fraternities view sororities?

How does facebook play into all these?

One of video comments goes like this:
Fraternities tend to breed a chauvinistic male-male love established in large part through promotion of heterosexual male dominance over differently gendered or gender-identifying people. Through engaging in often sexualized initiation and hazing rites (yes, hazing does occur in frats at Northwestern), some fraternities, by no means all, are engaging in homoerotic behavior for the purpose of establishing heterosexual male supremacy over their peers. Isn’t that kind of ironic?

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How to pick up straight guys in college - Part 1

Monday, January 21, 2008

College years means different things for different people. For most people, it was all about books, boys, chicks and beer. Those were really the years of insecurity and jealousy. If you are like most people, when you first start college you will be lonely, wishing to mate with as many different guys as possible, and trying to establish relationships the only way you know how. No matter how hard you try, there are bound to be some people in your social world that could potentially destroy your chances of getting with the guys you want. I want to share the types of personality I’ve learned to spot and the ways to manage them.

Alpha dogs (AD): There are hot straight guys and then there are hot straight alpha dogs that will kick the shit out of you for no reasons. Know the difference! Alpha dogs are emotionally insecure, and they have this unmistakable need to dominate. If an AD isn't good looking don't even bother to talk to him. The problem is, sometimes even it you try to stay away troubles will find you. After years of observations, one relatively easy way to get an AD to be less hostile to you (at least temporarily) is to talk to him privately you are just here to have fun and not to steal girls from his social circle.

Emotionally unstable bitches / House pussies: You can find them quite easily in any frat parties or house parties but they are actually everywhere. Look out for them. They are usually young, semi attractive girls and love to start troubles. They are very good at stirring up things, and then asking their boys in the frat to kick you out. Try to stay on their good side for as long as you can, if they still want to create dramas, let the guys know you didn't touch her or be disrespectful to her.

(to be continued)

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Photo Essay: Please don't try so hard to stay goodbye

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How to get a bid from a straight frat if you're gay

Sunday, January 20, 2008

"Some men joined frats to get rid of their sexuality, to hide their gayness."

Is this statement true? Maybe back in the 60s. Does it still apply? I don't know. Whether gay people belong to fraternities and how do gay guys get bids remain topics that guarantee a heated debate.

Don't forget fraternities, like all other organizations, are all about image, popularity and rankings. It is not uncommon for many frats to think that by accepting openly gay members, their brand will devaluate to future potential pledges. Also, the thought of staying in the same house with open homos may make them feel uncomfortable. Some even argued that accepting openly gay members is not conductive to organizational stability. If you are gay and plan to pledge, here are some advice:

1. Have the grace to be manly around the school: I know it's a controversial thing for me to say. Like the U.S. military, there is an unspoken rule of "don't ask, don't tell" in many fraternities. People are not stupid, bisexual and gay brothers have ALWAYS existed in ALL fraternities, even if some people would prefer otherwise. For those people, as long as you don't bring up this sensitive topic, they would appreciate your consideration for not making them feel uncomfortable and would not even bring this up as a topic of conversation.

2. Touch base with the greek advisor on campus: Although I don't think any greek organizations would put "get rid of any gay, Asian, or black pledges" in their bylaw, it is clear that some chapters are more open and progressive than the others. The greek advisor on campus is a good reference point if you need help deciding which frat is more progressive. If you must, seek confirmation on this issue from the fraternity's national office.

3. Accentuate the positive: If they found out during the rush process that you're gay/bi and you are lucky enough to still be given a bid, highlight the potential benefits that you can provide to the fraternity. E.g. you have a lot of chick friends. I don't see why a fraternity would not want more cute girls hanging around their house? Remember, a person is granted membership because the existing brothers figured that it would possibly benefit the chapter in some (often superficial) way.

4. Don't date a brother: You don't try to date a brother, simple as that.

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Prepular's Choice: No More Ramen, Practical advice on how to acheive happiness after college

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Mortgages, stocks, jobs, health insurance. These are just some of the things people have to start to manage after they left college. College students are graduating with an average of $20,000 of student loan debt, 10 years ago, the figure was merely $10,000. The 25-34 age bracket has the second-highest rate of bankruptcy next to those 35-44.

Different stages of life, same problems.

Money, or the lack of, has always been a source of frustration for many. If you have read Rich Dad Poor Dad or The Millionaire Next Door, you probably would know one of the key techniques to accumulate wealth in a sustainable and relatively painless manner is to own assets. Frugality is another key technique. I have witnessed many of my college friends dropped out simply because they could not afford not to work while they took on a full course load. Being a massive self help junkie, I read extensively on topics including personal finance, motivational and biographies of people who have "been there done that". While all of the books are helpful, tips on how to raise millions from venture capitalists or a success story of using leverage finance to buy properties may not directly relate to my current life problems. Also, not that many useful books are written specifically for people about to leave college and enter the real world on how to manage their money and time.

Then I bumped into this: No More Ramen: The 20-Something's Real World Survival Guide: Straight Talk on Jobs, Money, Balance, Life, and More


This book contains more than 200 insightful interviews with recent graduates from UCLA, Harvard, Columbia, Arizona State, MIT, Penn State etc on topics of money and career. Having the money to groom yourself and maintain a good body greatly increases your chances of a successful courtship. Once in a while it’s easy to lose motivation and let it slip, this book is exactly what you need if you’re in apathy mode.

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Secret Confessions #3



Today's installment of Secret Confessions is somewhat related to our ongoing conversations about fraternity life and the "straight guys" with the asterisk. Via StraightActing.com


I've always had an interesting internal complex that my straight friends tell me is one that is similar to one they have about cheerleaders and sorority girls in high school. While I have always loathed the fraternity scene, greek life, and everything they stand for. The hazing, the drunken stupidity, the partying, the obsession with their own toughness, how they intend to coast through life through handouts, etc. But at the same time I can't help but wish I were part of their world. I mean I do have to face it, they are some of the sexiest men I've ever seen and I would probably fall for one in a heartbeat. I always thought that I was the only person that liked them, mainly because of the people I hang out with lol. Anyway, from what I can tell gay men liking frat guys is not uncommon at all. Some gay guys have actually managed to become those hot frat guys themselves, and I have to have alot of envy for guys who can do that. They may be submitting to the american machine, but in doing so they become the most desired men and hang out with only the other most desired men. It sounds crazy and impossible for me, but I want to be like them. Im still not sure what I have to do to get there. Im a very shy person, and I feel VERY akward in anything not black. Yet I've been going to the gym regularly for the first time in my life and Im starting to notice a change. Anyway, I got off on a tangent sorry. My question is, for anyone who can identify as gay frat guy, what is it like, really? I want to know everything about it.

Related entries:
How To Seduce Straight Guys
Straight Secrets.com

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Free cards and party invitations



Make an impression with these nice invitations. Simply download these templates, open them in MSWord or photoshop and print. Then you can handwrite words directly on the cards. Exclusively at Prepular.com.

Of All The Fish In The Sea, Prom With Me

Thank You

Free Cookies and Milk

Fully Charged and Ready to Party

I'm a Proud Sorority Girl

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Straight Men Studies: How to seduce apparently straight guys

Friday, January 18, 2008



One of the most unanswered questions that many gay frat guys wonder about is: "how to seduce straight guys". This sounds paradoxical. If a guy enjoys a man's company that guy is probably gay himself by definition.

I really don't know whether it is scientifically possible to seduce ANY straight guys. The fact that it is not easy for girls to seduce gay guys is a living proof. (imagine how impossibly difficult it is to try to turn Carson Kressley straight, it's probably easier to build a refrigerator from the scratch than getting him interested in eating some pussies) There are theories out there which claim that human are inherently bisexual to a certain degree, I found them quite plausible. This theory also agrees with many real life examples that gay guys do sometimes pick up an apparently straight man. I read the below from the New York Magazine:


Thomas, 37, an investment banker who considers himself straight, has had sexual encounters with three men. What got him curious was, of all things, straight porn. “You see these girls doing certain things and you think they’re really hot, but sometimes the way they’re totally submissive you wonder what it’s like to be the woman. And most pornography involves an element of the guy’s anatomy, which is usually huge.”

On a bad vacation in Argentina with a girlfriend, he met an attractive German guy on the beach wearing a “banana hammock.” They saw each other again in the locker room, and one thing led to another—a gay Heartbreak Kid. Though Thomas said it wouldn’t happen again, they hooked up a few more times before the end of the vacation.

There were two others after that—a trainer-masseur whom he generously repaid, and an Australian he found on Rentboy .com. Like a typical macho guy, he views his exile in Gayville not as a sign he might have some thinking to do, but as an educational experience that’s made him a better lover to women. “Now when I’m with a woman and she’s into being submissive, I know it’s exciting for her and I don’t feel guilty,” Thomas says. “I understand the fantasy of being taken by a man.”

Still, he doesn’t tell girls about his trysts. “The same women who play up the whole bi thing with each other are freaked out by the idea of men touching each other. Women are always worried about being replaced—not just by women but by men too.”


There are ways to get with a straight guy...

1. Look for signals: All straight guys who are interested in experimenting would send you subtle signals that they wouldn't mind messing around with you. Pay attention to see if any of those signals come up (e.g. all of a sudden he wants to play wrestling with you, he talks sh1ts like "I need to have sex with a girl so bad right now" and puts his arm around your shoulder etc). If a guy gradually starts spending more time at your apartment, initiating closer and closer contact, those are good signs. Now it's the right time to break out some beer! Let him make the moves, this is very important!! No straight guys want to be hit on, it's a dominance thing, hitting on him will make him feel he's in the "passive" role, thus he will run away.

2. Keep your big mouth shut: Although it is tempting to kiss and tell, don't forget those straight guys who experiment prefer to do it covertly. If you have a bad reputation of being the type of person who would kiss and tell, they wouldn't take the risk to try to take anything further with you. Reputation is important.

3. Understand the rule of the game: Now you hit the jackpot, he made out with you. Time for reality check! 99% of the time he would freak out and disappear from your life for a while. You will be making a huge mistake if you keep texting him or chatting him online, it will only drive him away further. Just play it cool, reciprocate the indifference, take it easy for a while, things will change for the better usually.

It's tried and true!

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Bias for action

Thursday, January 17, 2008

So in your quest to dominate your corner of the world, you might be wonder about higher order questions. Why is some people seem to always get the attention? Why am I not happy despite all the money I've spent on myself? How can I get a better job? How to manipulate the situation to my advantage? Why am I not getting any?

One characteristic that distinguishes a successful person from an unsuccessful one is the bias for action. Success often depends on taking action. It is scientifically proven that procrastination is harmful to your health.

Plan a "private time" in your schedule

Try to set aside at least 30 minutes every day that allow you to do something you truly enjoy. Often times, you are exhausted after a long day of work and study, the thought of having to set aside half an hour seems more like a luxury you can't afford. But it's not. This 30 minutes of private time, which may be spent on reading, preparing a nice dinner, watching a comedy, taking a long bath, jogging, gardening, writing emails to old friends, playing your favorite songs, is essential. It is essential because your happiness is at stake, and more often than not, people get too caught up in their daily work and life dramas, and forget to take time off and look after themselves. If bitching about little things really make you happy, go spend 30 minutes doing it. The whole point is, do something that makes you happy and look after yourself.

Do you remember an event in the past week that you truly had fun? Do you let the whole week passed by without taking time out for yourself? Or do you just feel tired all the time?

Take responsibilities
Every time you point fingers and blame others for an unwanted outcome, you are simply giving away your power. This is not to say you should put your hand up for every mistakes that are made in every situation. In fact, blaming others for your own faults maybe part of the important survival strategy in the workplace or in a group environment. The problem lies in people actually convinced themselves that there is nothing they can do to achieve a better outcome. In the process they gradually victimize themselves. You can not really control how people treat you, but you can learn to manage their nasty remarks and your own emotions. If you are not happy with your weight, is it a good time to go back to the gym? If your GPA is 2.5, instead of thinking it is irrelevant to your actual intelligence, is it a better option to book a meeting with your TA and ask for help with your study strategy?

Talk is cheap.

Working, studying and maintaining a full social life is tough. And to survive under absolutely Darwinian conditions isn’t easy. The most important things involve being determined to doing the thing, finding friends to help you out and commiserate when things have gone downhill, and just sticking with it.

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10 things I want for my life right now

Wednesday, January 16, 2008



10 things I want for my life right now
Top Row:
(L) Be relevant, trendy and hip, regardless of age
(C) Get a better job at a more prestigious company
(R) Have a hot looking boyfriend like Corbin Fisher's Nick

Second Row:
(L) Be able to have fun
(C) Keep in touch with friends and tell them how much they mean to me
(R) Gain the acceptance of respectable people

Middle Row:
(C) Go for a spa retreat at the Four Seasons Hotel

Bottom Row:
(L) Spend sometime tanning and swimming in Greece
(C) Get back into great shape
(R) Enjoy good food

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How to get Abercrombie & Fitch clothes dirt cheap

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Do you know how much Abercrombie & Fitch made in the holiday season just passed? In the five-week period ended Jan. 5, A&F’s sales reached $657 million. If you think they don't really need any more of your hard earned cash, here are some ways to help you get all the A&F items you needed without blowing your wallet.


1. Checkout Plato's Closet or your local swap stores

Ralph Lauren, A&F, Hollister clothes are sold at 30% of their full retail prices (i.e. 70% off). The clothes are pre-owned but are all hip, cool and trendy. Shopping at luxury swap shops is really becoming a trend. First founded in 2002, Plato's Closet grew to eight franchised stores, most of which generate close to the chainwide average of $600,000 annually.

2. Borrow your friend's Abercrombie Associate Card

All Abercrombie employees get 30% off regular prices, when they change the floor set every season, staff get 50% discount on what the maniquies are wearing. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A STAFF TO GET THAT BIG DISCOUNT! Here's how the system works, A&F employees only need to present their A&F Associate card at checkout to get the staff discount, the A&F credit card is not required. If you know anyone who works there who wouldn't mind you borrowing the associate card for a day, you are on your way to some terry-cloth half-shirts and pre-ripped jeans.

3. Buy an A&F gift card from a friend who works there
Again, I've checked with a friend of mine who works there. The 30% discount does cover gift cards. If you plan to spend $200, he/she can get you a card for $140 (employee price), you pay your friend $30 for helping you out and you still save $30. If he/she is willing to do it as a favor, that's better, you get $60 of value for nothing.

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Rip-off prices at UK Abercrombie

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Sigma Chi sued George Mason university following its 10 year suspension of the chapter

Is 10 year suspension too heavy a punishment for hazing? Sigma Chi decided to sue George Mason University, and to seek declaratory relief and money damages. The suspension was triggered not by a single by a series of events, which included alleged sexual assault on underage girls. The list of charge includes:

1) Hazing - 8:30 a.m. on Dec. 7, 2005, in the area of Fenwick Library on the George Mason Campus

2) Providing alcohol to minors – Sept. 7, 2005

3) Underage consumption of alcohol – Sept.7, 2005

4) Sponsoring a party under conditions that resulted in sexual assaults on a female guest - Feb. 26, 2005 and Sept. 7, 2005

As of now, the chapter is unrecognized by the university. The row continues online with Sigma Chi supporters leaving angry comments on the Broadside website.

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Alpha Phi Alpha alumnus died in Iraq

The war in Iraq has definitely taken its toll from fraternities nation wide. Only the good die young.

Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity is the nation’s first and largest predominately Black Greek-letter fraternity.

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Michael Copon naked

For those of you who couldn't get enough of Michael Copon shirtless, here's an old video of him in One Tree Hill.

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Bobby Banhart to star in new movie



While Thien Thanh Thi Nguyen (aka Tila Tequila) and her skanky ass will be around for another season of "A shot at love", Bobby Banhart is moving on to star in a new independent comedy called “Within the Heart” written and directed by Gina Luciano. Apparently, I'm not the only person who thinks he deserves someone better than Thien Thanh Thi Nguyen, I just found this Bobby Banhart myspace channel.

Related Entry:
Bobby Banhart is on the market again

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High school can really be a bitch



High School Musical 3 is going to bypass the Disney Channel, and will be the first big screen installment of this massively popular franchise. Zac apparently signed the deal for $3m. No doubt they still keep him, all the girls like him, and some guys too. The entire cast, including that nasty Vanessa "XXX" Hudgens, will be intact. E! News has more. People are already asking Disney to "show that little whore's p___y and t_ts in this so-to-be classic."

Everyone is asking this question: "Is Zac Efron gay?" Details Magazine asked the man himself about Perez's constant insinuation. Oh wait, what is that think on your hair, is that KY?





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Secret Confessions #2

Monday, January 14, 2008



Ever found it hard to stay away from all the love, sex and money dramas in your life? Sure you have, it's not easy sometimes. We all want to know how other people who have gone through similar experiences responded. Reading those anonymous secret confessions is one way to do it.

"I've been cheating with my husband's boss...it's great sex and good set up, I don't feel guilty at all"

"I've been betting online for 6 months now, and have lost over $25000"


Ex's sweet revenge


"My crush says he wacks it to guys and girls"

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Kappa Alpha Theta alumnae shares her view on sorority life and job interviews

Liz Handlin, alumnae of Kappa Alpha Theta, shares her view on the sorority rushing process, its similarities with job hunting, and what people can do in both to win the game.

Sorority rush at big schools is an interesting process and as I was watching the proceedings it occurred to me that interviewees and interviewers in corporate America could learn a lot from sorority rush.

Potential new sorority members who enter the house smiling, happy, and poised have a better chance of impressing actives than those who look scared, unhappy, or unsure of themselves. It seemed pretty obvious from my vantage point which of the rushees would have a good shot at being invited back for a second party. I could be wrong about some of the girls of course...some of the girls who were quiet or less enthusiastic may have gotten a call back. However, generally speaking, no one likes to be around a sourpuss or someone who doesn't seem confident.

I was a hiring manager for many years and I can say with certainty that candidates who are friendly, polite, and confident have a better chance of getting a job than those who aren't. When interviewing for anything put your insecurities (we all have them!) aside and put forth a confident and happy persona. It will work wonders.

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Massive sorority eviction for being fat and uncool: True story of Delta Zeta

Sunday, January 13, 2008

I almost missed this one.

Troubled by the declining membership, the Delta Zeta sorority at DePauw University sent letters to members that they deemed not attractive enough, and asked them to leave the sorority and vacate from the house. All the non-whites were also asked to pack their bags. When questioned by a New York times reporter, Delta Zeta's PR representative claimed that "the isolated incident at DePauw has been mischaracterized".

DePauw’s president, Robert G. Bottoms, later issued a two-page letter of reprimand to the sorority. In the end, DePauw disbanded the Delta Zeta chapter altogether.

Apparently this is the microcosm of how the game is played in the society as a whole, as Sororities and Fraternities are often seen as status competitions. If you can guzzle an impressive amount of alcohol, if you are hot AND snobbish, if you buy the right clothes and hang out with the right group, and if you join a frat / sorority, your status goes up. This is how most people see it. The point I want to make is, although it is easy to exclude people who are different or "less desirable", extreme measures like evicting people using looks as the single measurement is not only downright unreasonable, it gives the organization a bad name. I was heartened by the report that half of the slim, white girls who were not kicked out of the DePauw sorority quit in protest.

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Fraternity / Sorority Q&As

So you are planning to take part in the greek life, here are some resources from people who have been there, done that:

40 year old and still loving her sorority, is that normal?

Join a Frat?

Rude Frat behavior?

Dating a Sorority girl?

How do I choose which sorority to join?

Does joining a frat give you a lot of connections after college?


Do girls prefer frat guys?

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Random Video: Frat finishes the keg

One frat guy finishes the whole keg.

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Funny Sorority Impersonation Video

This has got to be one of the funniest, most ridiculous impersonation sorority video.


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The truth hurts, doesn't it queers

Saturday, January 12, 2008

You don't see that many gay guys that look like those Fratmen models. Gay guys usually gather around art galleries, smell like they have doused themselves in some cologne in near head-exploding quantity, and are never invited to beer pong games. Am I pulling stereotypes? Maybe. Am I telling a disturbing truth? Absolutely.

Do you think that fugly Perez Hilton, Bryanboy or the likes is giving all gay people a bad name? For me, yes. Lucky for us, for every sh1theads like them we have many more decent gay people who actually contribute something to the society like Chip Arndt, Marc Jacobs and Reichen Lehmkuhl. I am not against people who act queenly, just that I want myself to model after people who have better integrity, who are more intelligent, achievement-oriented, self conscious and confident. If you are attracted to guys, I bet you're attracted to their actions, power and domination. That's why straight guys can "market" their dominance, and get tonnes of cash from their "cash fags" on sites like Niteflirt. The real tragedy lies not in the attraction of power, but the unhealthy obsession that gay guys can never be better than straight guys.

It is okay to direct your own life in exactly the same direction you wanted, this can be achieved by having a life plan, reading a lot of self help books, getting a good education, and by learning of manipulation and people skills.

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Secret Confessions of the week



It's hard to ignore the fact that there are so many anonymous juicy confessions on the web.

A college student got caught for plagiarism, had sex with her TA who agreed not to tell the professor. She enjoyed the ride.

A bride to be has second thoughts about the upcoming marriage as she is smarter than him.

A real life 28 year old virgin wonders will he ever get it.

Hey mum, your daughter is an escort girl.

"I am way hotter than his girlfriend, and am so going to knock her out of the picture."

Borderline alcoholic uses alcohol to cope.

A girl was released from jail, fell in love with the wrong guy.

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Prepular Men: Chris Hemsworth Part II

Friday, January 11, 2008

Part Deux.

Getting Horny



Interrupted Sex Romp



Stripping his shirt off

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Prepular Men: Chris Hemsworth



When soap stud Chris Hemsworth made the move from the crappy "Home and Away", on which he was shirtless all the time, many of us were disappointed. In fact, the only reason I watched H&A was to see him and the other guy, Jason Smith. But all you bitches and queers read on, he landed roles in a Hollywood flick called Root of All Evil.




If you can't get enough of him, here's more:

WiredImages: Chris Hemsworth

Chris Hemsworth Jets Home

Hotties: Chris Hemsworth






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Secret Confessions

I don't want you to miss out from all the juicy, secret confession stories on the web. I will start scavengering all the stories here for your reading pleasure.

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How to look rich

I never get bored of trying to impress people, look what I found from Wikihow:

How to look rich

How to become hot in one summer

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Rip-off prices at UK Abercrombie

Everyone seems to find out how expensive Abercrombie & Fitch is in the UK compare to the US. One of the comments in the DailyMail Abercrombie article said that "A polo top that retails for $49.99 in the states is being sold for £60 in the UK". This is equivalent of adding on $64 to the US price making it $113)

Ohlala Mag has an article on Kris Lewin, the new beautiful face at AF with the signature hot body. One of the comments went like this:

I personally have found A&F clothes to be pretty high in quality while my Hilfiger or Calvin Klein dress shirts are more costly and fall apart MUCH sooner. Their clothes are very rugged in general, which is why dollar for dollar, I'll continue to spend my money there over GAP, Banana and whatever other place offer semi-professional work attire (aka casual).

I don't personally own that many AF items, I do have to agree that the Hilfiger products do fall apart very soon. They also look kind of cheap compare to Calvin Klein, Brooks Brothers and AF.

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Not your typical shirtless Abercrombie guys

Do you ever get turned on seeing all those pictures of hot shirtless guys modeled for Abercrombie and Fitch? I just found this video of 111 guys, of all shapes and sizes, met up and went shirtless in the 5th Avenue Abercrombie store. It was hilarious how they got kicked out.

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Frat guy and the STD girl

Friday, January 4, 2008

One very funny story about a fraternity guy and a "STD" girl...(via Pitt News)

Ah, the second semester of the year. Finally settled into dorms and apartments, the lines at the bookstore have dwindled down to the slacking few and students can be spotted nodding off in classrooms across campus already.

To the eager freshmen who survived their arrival here at Pitt in the fall, I commend you. You have passed your first test. No doubt your parents assisted you in this feat, your mother breaking down in tears as she made your bed, your father pulling you close for a warm embrace and asking if you need more money before they drove away.

Yeah, that'll change.

Entering my junior year, last fall I had the joy of moving into Bouquet Gardens. This time around, my parents slowed the car just enough for me to grab some of my belongings before tucking and rolling out onto the pavement as they flung the rest of my stuff after me, using the back of my head as a target.

But listen, my children, and you shall hear the embarrassing tale of my freshman year, and why this drop-off at Pitt was a welcome adjustment.

The braces had barely been popped off my teeth as I sat in the front seat between my parents, grinning idiotically at the big, bad world of the University of Pittsburgh as we entered what my parents still refer to as the "big city" of Oakland. After a mere hour or two of looping around Forbes and Fifth trying to find the Litchfield Towers - yeah, it was that pitiful - we pulled into a parking lot loaded with fraternity brothers in brightly colored Arrival Survival shirts.

My parents climbed out and I slid across the bench seat, stumbling out of the car, all the while staring at a fraternity brother who appeared to have a beautiful aura about him. The brothers pointed my mother and me toward the Towers to rent a cart, and offered to help my dad unload the car.

I walked to the lobby in a daze, fantasizing about the gorgeous fraternity brother offering his family's prize cow and $500 to my father in exchange for my hand in marriage. So this is what college was like. Life was beautiful.

Five minutes or so later, give or take 30 seconds, my mother and I arrived back at the car, rented cart and key to my room in tow. The fraternity brothers helped load my belongings into the cart and offered further assistance in helping us to my room.

Miracle of miracles, I ended up pulling up the rear with the love of my life, who turned to me in our first stolen moment of privacy and passionately whispered:

"So, you wrote a speech about sexually transmitted diseases in high school, eh?"

Followed by a snicker and an elbow jab to his frat buddy.

I was nothing short of mortified. In the five minutes that I had left my future husband, my father had revealed the dorkiest secret of my life: I had not only written a speech in high school about sexually transmitted diseases and the alarming prevalence among teenagers, but I also competed in public speaking tournaments with it. Why didn't my dad tell him I was captain of the Reading Team and led them to three consecutive first place wins in junior high while he was at it?

A sort of numbness took over my body. I know that my face must have been glowing the red color of the neon sign for the "O."

I barely noticed that my father did not allow anyone else on the elevator once we finally got one, manning it as though he were the Skipper on a private vessel to the 20th floor of Tower B. Or the fact that he tipped each fraternity brother a dollar for his help.

I'd like to tell you that I became a well-adjusted Pitt student following that tragic day, but it's simply not true. To this day, whenever I see a brother from that fraternity, he is sure to yell:

"Hey, STD girl!"

I swear a freshman that I have never met did it just the other day.

So, congratulations well-adjusted freshmen. And remember to keep the tuck-and-roll drop-off in mind for next year. After all, it's never too late for a dad to mark you with a scarlet letter - or three.

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Quick poll: Would you put your girlfriend / boyfriend before your fraternity / sorority?

Would you put your girlfriend / boyfriend before your fraternity / sorority?

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Lavaliering and pinning

I don't know how many chapters have formal pinning or lavaliering ceremony. I read an old article from Penn State which they cite their frat members would "pole" the brother who has lavaliered, strip him naked, while other members thrown food at him. Of course, each fraternity / sorority has its very own rituals. I know many sororities do candle passes, usually for lavaliering / pinning / engagement or getting knocked up (whichever comes first!).

Question for guys: Would you ever give your pin to your girlfriend?

Question for girls: Would you ever lavalier a guy? Do you think guys and girls view the lavalier differently?

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Have you been hated by your own frat house members?

Thursday, January 3, 2008

I read something on Greek Chat today that got me thinking about in-group and out group behavior, and also the quality of greek meetings. A frat brother transferred from one chapter to another, and found that he had problem relating to more than 90% of the "native" members.

There are a few options available to him which include 1. Go with the flow. 2. Become inactive, and graduate as an alum in good standing. Or 3. Drop out.

The in-group / out-group effect in social categorization has long been documented by psychologists. We like in-group members much more than out-group members, the word"We" has positive connotations; "we" automatically activates positive associations. In many cases this liking depends merely on the knowledge of shared group membership.Not only that, people have a tendency to view all outgroup members as homogeneous.

Another member provided a very plausible diagnosis of the situation, which he believed that the apathy in itself is not the problem but a symptom of other problems. They may include overprogramming, events that are not of high quality and poorly-run meetings.

Have you ever been hated by our own frat brothers / sorority sisters? Please share it here.

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would those of you who hate Tila Tequila please stand up?

Wednesday, January 2, 2008




Disgusting.

And it's not just her looks. Taking a line from Peter Griffin, you wanna know what really grinds my gears? People like Thien Thanh Thi Nguyen (aka Tila Tequila) playing genuine, sincere people. You can so tell both Bobby is a very soft and sensitive guy, that makes her action even more disgusting.

Do you think Perez Hilton is being a racist by calling her by her real name Thien Thanh Thi Nguyen? Would you rather bang Lil Kim or Tila? Is she a little Asian man in drag? Please vote:

1. I need to have sex with Tila Tequila
2. She is just one dirty hoe with a bad implant
3. Leave her alone, its not her fault to have way too much ink
4. Is that fun house mirror face?

Related entry:
Bobby Banhart is on the market again

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Bobby Banhart is on the market again



Thien Thanh Thi Nguyen, aka Tila Tequila, announced it in her blog that Bobby Banhart broke up with her. Every viewer looked at MTV's dating show "A shot at love with Tila Tequila" differently, Melanie Mcfarland called it the "saddest example of TV's decline". Tila Tequila is myspace's most popular person, for sure, I don't see her being too different from other F-list celebrities who would do anything to stay in the limelight, trying to extend their long expired 15 minutes (case in point, Danielle Foxxx who is a frequent guest on Maury) . One good thing though, is through her show we get to meet cute guys like Bobby, and he is on the market again!


Do you think Tila is a hoe?

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Tuesday, January 1, 2008

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Louis Vuitton Monogram Multicolore Canvas



About four years ago, Louis Vuitton added the ultra-feminine Monogram Multicolore canvas to its catalog. Its playful, sweet and trendy design easily became one of the most talked about design of the year. Some might think the sprawling sorority of sexy, groovy, young people who carry these bags around is annoying and devaluating the brand. But that was four years ago. If you've checked out LV's website lately, you would find that this multicolore line is becoming part of the monogram classics, with more and more items added to the line.

One of the most frequently asked questions on the internet is, how to spot a fake Louis Vuitton? LVMH has reached settlement with Burlington Coat & Co,
which BCF has agreed to refrain from future counterfeiting activity upon Marc Jacobs intellectual properties. I went "aha" when I saw the photo of the counterfeits, they look so cheap, tacky and ugly. How can someone confuse this ugly knockoff with the real one?


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